Alx, Indonesia:
Dear Doctor, I am a 20 year-old boy. I have a girlfriend who is also 20 years old. We often release our passions by kissing and caressing each other. One day, we did something that looks like having a sex. We did it on bed and rub each others groin, but we’re not naked, we still have our clothes on instead. And then, I reach a climax and ejaculate in my underwear. What i want to ask you is, can my girlfriend get pregnant if we did something like that?
Dear Alx,
Please be careful in your love life. You have reached the third step in a sexual relationship with your girlfriend. You have done kissing, necking and petting. Kissing is a passionate kiss, Necking is to seduce the neck area or to kiss one’s neck deeply. And Petting is to seduce each other’s sexual organ but no intercourse.
Doing Petting with all your clothes on still provide a chance of getting pregnant. We all know that spermatozoids swim like fish when they are in liquid medium. When a woman is in the arousal state, the vagina area is getting wet then can also wetten her trousers/shorts. Spermatozoids which is ejaculated into your underwear can swim through your clothes’ pore and go through inside the vagina.
Someone has reported in a radio-broadcast session “BUKA PINTU” in 106,85 MHz “MARA FM” radio station, Bandung, (maybe you have heard it before), that doing Petting, even when you are wearing a Blue Jeans, can also result pregnancy. Well, I hope this won’t happen to you
