Sex Q & A: My lover can’t ejaculate

Dear Doctor,

my 30 yr old lover has no problem staying hard for hours, even after ejaculation, his problem is that he wants to come over and over again, and we can’t seem to get him to do this more than 3 times in a session–could be hours..he really wants to come often, and is very open to all aspects of sexual pleasure,,viagra and other male stimulants seem to just make him numb and unable to come at all,, is there anyway that would enable him to ejaculate more often,,as i said, staying hard and achieving erections are not a problem

Dear Sue,

As long as I know, the sexual performance of your 30 year old lover has already been in a very good condition or I can say he has very superb condition. If he can get up 3 times in a session and can stay for hours, then that’s already a very good / extraordinary performance for your lover.
I ‘m afraid we don’t have any drugs/methods to make people ejaculate very often. The ability to get erection and ejaculate is something which is born together with you, so it is an individual potency and cannot be changed by drugs or any methods. So, don’t worry just be happy with it, just remember that you had everything that has already been extraordinary in comparison to other people.
Maybe you can remind your lover and let him read Multiorgasmic Man book. In that book, Mantak Chia has stated that in Chinese custom, ejaculation is a waste of energy. So, Chinese (Taoist) tends to get many orgasm without ejaculation. According to him, that’s the healthiest thing. You can get many orgasm without having ejaculation.

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Sex Q & A: I often cannot reach satisfaction, Is there something wrong with me?

Uci, Indonesia:

Dear Doctor,

In our sexual life, I can get orgasm easily sometimes, but I often cannot reach it. Is there something wrong with me, doc? Does each woman have different easiness in orgasm? I have a friend who told me that she can reach it very easy. How could it be doctor?

Dear Uci in Indonesia,

You’re right that women have different experience toward orgasm. Some of them can reach orgasm easily, but some of them cannot. This can be caused by many things. One of them is that each woman has different stimulating spots on her body. The most stimulating spot on women is around clitoris. You know clitoris is located at the top of vagina. It is located on the upper conjunction of labium minora. Clitoris is quite the same as penis in man. It is the area which consists of many blood-vessels that usually can bring abundant sexual stimulation. This would make women easy to reach orgasm. But there are many other spots beside clitoris.

There are areas around vagina that can bring sexual stimulation. First, there is U-Spot (Urinary Spot), located about 1 cm down from the urethra. Try to stimulate this area by pressing or rubbing it. Sometimes you can do it using your husband’s penis or by finger.

Then, on the base of vagina there is the S-Point (Stretch Point). Right under the Perinium, try to stretch it left or right by your fingers. This spot can bring much stimulation to most women. The last spot is called as G-Spot. G-Spot is located on the upper wall inside the vagina. If you touch the upper wall of vagina by finger after you passed the urethra, go inside about 1-2 cm. You’ll found a bone that is called ‘pubic bone’. G-Spot is located on the back of pubic bone. Of course you can reach it by fingers only because it’s very hard to reach it by penis, except if your husband have tilted-up penis. G-Spot can also be reached if the penis is aimed to the upper wall of the vagina.

You said that you can get orgasm sometimes. I suggest you to pay attention on what position, what kind of activity in your sexual intercourse that can make you reach orgasm. Also, Pay attention on the stimulating spot and how to stimulate it. If your friends said that she can reach orgasm easily, maybe that’s because they’ve known each other very well. Her husband can make her reach orgasm easily because he really knows how to stimulate his wife. I hope you understand it.

So i suggest you to make a map of your body. All sides, the front and the back side of your body. Try to stimulate a spot and give it a point. Ranges from +1 to +3. 1 point means that this spot has sexual stimulation, 2 has more sexual stimulation, and 3 has the most sexual stimulation. So, when you are having sex with your husband, you can stimulate it effectively to help you reach orgasm easily.

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Is it True that Women will feel more satisfied if sexual intercourse is done in longer time.

Women will feel more satisfied if sexual intercourse is done in longer time. Is it True?

Women will get more satisfaction if sexual intercourse is being performed longer. This is only a myth because not all women likes sex that performed too long. Longer time sometimes needed to give woman a chance to have orgasm first. As we know before, women needs more time than men to have orgasm.

According to Prof. Master & Johnson, men only needs 2-5 minutes to get orgasm, but in women, they need 10-20 minutes before orgasm. So, I think it’s clear that if sexual activity is performed below 10 minutes, it is very hard for women to reach orgasm. Longer time in sexual activity has also possibilities of unpleasancy for women.

If sexual activity that performed longer than usual and accompanied by woman’s multiple orgasm, it would give a woman more satisfactory feeling. But if this woman can’t reach orgasm in this sexual activity, this would lead into torture on woman. We know that longer sexual activity requires good lubrication on vagina. Lubrication on women could only happen if they had enough sexual arousal.

So, if this long trip to heaven couldn’t give woman orgasm, there will be no lubrication and her vagina will be dried of this activity. Her vagina can get bruises and sometimes get bleeding. Of course this is a torture to a woman.

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Sex Q & A: "How long will it take normally until a man ejaculate?"

Nle, Malaysia:

Dear Doctor,

I just wonder how long normally a sexual intercourse will last from the moment of inserting the penis into the vagina until the man come? Roughly how many stroke it take before a man come?

Dearest Nle,

According to DR Master & DR Johnson , USA, normally ejaculation will happen 4 minutes after intermission in male (2 to 5 minutes). About how many strokes depends on the class you played, are you in the class of Pete Samprass or rather slow as Agassi.

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